Is Dog Selectivity Normal?

Not All Dogs Are Social Butterflies

Just like us, dogs have different levels of tolerance for other dogs. As they mature, their sociability often changes. Puppies tend to be more open and playful, but as your dog matures (socially, sexually, and emotionally) usually up until 2–3 years old, they may become more selective in who they interact with. With proper socialization, you can help build your dog’s sociability. Good leadership and direction is important to set your dog up for success. 

We will break down a graph so in this 100% is the dog’s population: 

10%: Dog Social
Often puppies or very social adults. They can get along with just about any dog, no matter the size or play style.

10%: Dog Aggressive
These dogs generally dislike other dogs but may still have one dog friend at home.

80%: Dog Selective & Dog Tolerant
This is the majority. These dogs may:

• Be selective about sizes or breeds or same gender
• Dislike puppies
• Tolerant and selective to play styles (rough vs. gentle)
• Some can be in the same space as other dogs but minding their own businesses
• Enjoy sniffing but dislike being sniffed

👉 Dog selectivity is completely normal!
Your dog doesn’t have to love every dog they meet. What matters is helping them navigate social situations with confidence and respect for their boundaries.